There are lots of people who try to understand love, they want to know what is Love?
First, they try to search the answers from their surrounding, from movies, books and sometimes even from other's experiences. But none of the answers carved from these really satisfies them, hence they comfortably take a liberty to make their own answer to this perplexed question, and their answer generally is an attempt to satisfy themselves. Because of this I feel that love is one of the most misused and abused word in today's world.
Reading my poetries on my blog, some of my friends or probably foe had often asked me that, am I in love???
Am I ? I don't know... Even though I think that probably I am an eternal lover, and I have always been in love. Then too I really don't think I am able enough to understand love. I am trying to understand love myself, and here I am jolting down some of my findings of love.
"When two souls with different or same identity and destiny get observed in each other, Its called love."
Love is free from reasons. Love practically can't have any reasons. It's just that you love somebody, or you don't.. That's it... Love, don't come with an option. Love is not thought and neither a habit. Love is beyond the logics of this conscious mind, or may be its somewhere the part of unconscious mind which only Sigmund Freud can decipher... haha!
For some people love is a conscious effort, for an desire to get someone they are attracted to. But such attraction and desire are temporal , hence its not love, as love is forever.
Love is not an answer, in fact, it is a first question which further leads to thousands of more questions. Love is not finality; It's a beginning.
Love is not meeting of bodies, neither it is the way they show in movies. It's far simpler and beautiful than that. Love is in acceptance, just like life.
Some people say that love brings you happiness, I pity them because I am afraid that they will fall in the trap of these emotions, and then they will start believing in this for whole of their life. They will create a make-believe world for themselves. It's bad when people cannot identify and experience one of the purest feelings of this human existence. Love, don't have anything to do with happiness or sadness. Its way beyond these temporal emotions, it's forever, its immortal.
Love is a process of purification that a soul goes through. Love makes you sensitive to each-other, to everyone and everything, towards life.
Love is different thing for different people; everybody has their own perception of love. It is just the way as people have the perception of god they do have a perception of love. And as for some people religion is more important than god, similarly for some people idea of love is more important than love.
Love & Regards,
Pawan Jha
